Lose the Fear and Get The Date
Author: ChrisBenjamin Total views: 22 Word Count: 502
Learning how to approach women, for most men, is a prospect filled with anxiety and trepidation - it's even more feared than going bald or having football banned from national TV. However, there are certain things that men can do to lessen that approach anxiety and really learn to be successful with meeting women and dating.
One of the first things that men can learn to do to help overcome approach anxiety is practice. Practice makes perfect after all, and the more you do it, the more comfortable you will become. The more comfortable you become, the more success you will have. Women can sense a man's ease - and if he is easily able to strike up a conversation with her, that will make her more comfortable.
Every time you see a woman you want to approach, go talk to her before you can talk yourself out of it. One thing that really helps men with this kind of cold approach is using techniques like Cocky Funny or Cocky Comedy.
David Deangelo of Double Your Dating developed the Cocky Comedy program to help men create attraction and fan the flames with a woman. Cocky Comedy seems very natural, and after getting used to it, it can easily become part of your personality. With most "naturals" - it is already. The boiled down version of Cocky Funny is this - you use words to say that she is NOT all that - but your body language tells a different story.
A very simple method to use is busting her balls verbally - making fun of her clothing, her stature, how she parks or what have you, but then show brief affection to her with your body language, but holding a door open for her, touching her on the arm, etc.
What this does for a woman is it keeps her just a little bit confused - which is a good thing. When a woman knows that you are attracted to her - it gives her the upper hand, and also loses much of the interest for her. On the other hand, if you can keep her guessing, that will spark attraction for her and keep her interested in you.
As you get more comfortable approaching people, you will start to appreciate how similar women are, and you'll develop standard ways to overcome their objections or make them laugh by teasing them or engaging them in an unusual manner. And, more generally, you'll develop an ease and comfort with other people - even strangers - that will translate nicely into a confidence that women find irresistible.
Practice constantly - succeed inevitably. The more you practice, the better you will get at approaching women, and soon your anxiety will be a thing of the past. You will also find yourself with the choice of women, which will lead top you finding that special lady you want in your life. So what are you waiting for? Approach, man, approach!
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