Managing Your Time when Meeting Women - Part 1
Author: VinDiCarlo Total views: 16 Word Count: 474
Dating can be your best pal.
...OR your worst enemy.
A lot of time, a man can feel like a slave to his natural need to procreate.
Then there goes a common quote, "He thinks with his... You know."
Well it is hard NOT think that way if you are physically unsatisfied.
But men are also goal oriented.
We are doers, and need to achieve things and affect the world in a positive way.
One of the biggest challenges I've personally faced is balancing the two - my urges and achieving my goals.
Dating can take a lot of time when you are single. Women will suck away at your time if you don't know what you're doing.
Before you notice it, you are spending hours feeding the birds and cuddling in the park... now nothing wrong with spending a quality time with your girlfriend, AS LONG AS IT DON'T interferes YOUR GOALS IN LIFE.
Goals take time, but so do women.
In fact, it's the nature of a woman to take up the man's time - it's her way of getting you to invest in her. That way if the woman gets pregnant there's a less chance of you leaving (this comes from our caveman days, so to speak).
It is really tricky to manage your time with women. You see, most men want to give their time to women. By nature men are "givers." They like to please women, protect them, and give them good feelings.
Guys have also a urges that can completely take over your thinking.
Both of these things can get in the way of you making the most of your life, your time.
I want you to take a second and ask yourself, "WHAT DO I REALLY WANT TO GIVE TO WOMEN?"
Now I'm willing to bet it wasn't "money," or "lots of my free time," or "control over my life."
It was probably something like "good feelings, sexual pleasure, relaxation, excitement, feeling of safety, make her smile or feel good about herself, etc."
I think men have problems with how they use their time with women in two ways.
First, they overcompensate with other stuff - like spending too much time or money on a woman because they think that the gifts they REALLY wanted to give aren't that valuable.
Second, men think that they are "getting" something valuable when a girl spends time with them.
Guys was brainwash by the society to believe that women are a prize to attain, and that there's some inherent value in a pretty face.
It's not TRUE!
The best thing is to see women for what they are, nothing more, nothing less. They are cute, sometimes fun, but ultimately not that important, AND THEY CAN'T COMPLETE YOUR LIFE!
Now it is really hard to break out of this mental prison of feeling inferior to women.
It is hard to notice the mental habits because these are subtle and you've been doing them for years.
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