On-Line Dating - What A Woman Should Not Do
Author: AngelinaD'Amours Total views: 15 Word Count: 472
On-Line dating can be a very effective way to meet quality men. However there are a few "rules" that women should take heed to if they don't want to turn off a potential mate, especially one they are interested in.
After you have written a great profile, and uploaded the most gorgeous picture of yourself you have, when the responses start rolling in, don't blow it by not following these very simple rules. First, don't give out too much information in the beginning. Be interesting, but don't tell or write your entire life's history on the first talk or email.
If, for example, you are fortunate to have children (I believe children are truly a blessing), and are asked about them, tell their names and ages and sex. Don't volunteer that little Johnny is ADHD and wets in the bed every night. Believe me, you will have ample opportunity to discuss more detail of your life, if the guy calls you back again. If any other questions are asked, answer them, and ask the guy the same question, so that he can share himself with you.
For every question he asks you, you should ask one of him. Nothing turns a man off like a long-winded woman who just doesn't know when to be quiet or how to listen.
Lying will get you in trouble. If you have children you will not be able to hide them in the closet when you finally meet your online date. If you are skinny, don't say you are curvaious and vice-versa. Any lies you tell on-line will eventually, come to light as you continue to meet more people.
One of the ten commandments comes strongly into play strongly when you write your profile and correspond with anyone wanting to connect with you, through dating on-line. "Thou Shall Not Lie". This might be the most important rule in on-line dating. Untruths have a tendency to rear their ugly little heads at the most inappropriate times. When they do, you could lose the change of developing a great relationship, with someone whose company you have been enjoying.
Maybe you have been alone for a while, or have had some "bad relationships", but still don't make yourself look desperate. Desperation or even appearing to be desperate turns most people off, especially men. You don't want to scare them away, by being clingy or too easy.
These rules are general guidelines which lead to success at on-line dating. They work. I met my husband at an on-line site just by being myself, a good listener, and telling the truth. We have been married for several years now, bought a home together and have adopted twin boys. Your man could be just around the computer for you too.
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